Best friends.
I have had so many "best friends" over the years, people who I've talked about and said "oh my best friend and I..." and people are always like how many best friends do you have? But, its so easy to lose them in a Blink of an eye.
It's funny one of my ex besties told me I lose all my friends because "I'm a bitch." Which is 100% right I am a bitch and condescending one at that! Thats my fault in friendships, I admit that!
Another best friend (B here's you're mention), always tells me "to get new friends". Because most of mine are terrible, which is also right!
I've lost one of my best friends when she started dating a guy...one minute she was over at my house we basically lived together, we even god damn showered together! NEK MINNUT - we haven't talked for six months.
I've lost another because I told him a story about how I ALMOST got lured into a car by a 'rapist' where police escorted me home, to me texting him telling him this story and he didn't reply and I sent him a text saying "oh my god why do I tell you anything" to his response was "you can't just fucking crack it when I don't reply" not even a OH FUCK ARE YOU OKAY? I sound rediculously up myself here but he's my best friend he should of called me right away after he was busy or at least are ARE YOU OKAY? But no... Friendship over ! It's as simple as that.
Or how about my other best friend my old room mate, we were totally inseparable I loved her to pieces! Now if I see her now, she legit ignores me and hates me for some unknown reason. (hi Brooke if you're reading these IM me about why you hate me man?)
Not sure what happened there! or how about my best friend who had sex with my ex? Classic. Or one of my best friend from high school who says... NO she MAINTAINS we are best friends but I legit see old high school teachers more than her. (Hello, Latonya I love you more than ÿøû love me).
You all could take a leaflet out of these girls books, one moved to Perth like 7 years ago and we are still best friends (Steph Pruks your mention, finally) Or another who is in the Army and WE are still best friends Or how about one who had a baby, works AND still has time to see me or a girl I made to stay up until 4am until I finished writing this so she could, proof read it (Beth, whattup besty!). Or my room mate now, we had lived together for a year and we still love each other so you can't use the example that maybe i spend to much time with these people, I literally followed this girl around for an entire year and she totally still loves me (except when I forget to pick up the bath mat and she gets sad), I even have friends who are my best friends from primary school, (brooke and georgia) now that shit CRAY! People always say you lose you're friends from high school but when I get with some of them now it's like we had never left.(Maddie Patterson, what's up girl?)
Friendship is hard fucking work. It takes two to tango and just because you say someone is your best friend doesn't mean that you are in fact theirs.
It's so very easy to lose a best friend, but it happens and you find other friends so quick you forget about the ones you've left behind, the ones you take a piece from and move on, it's life and it happens to everyone in the entire world.
A best friend is someone who sticks by you until the day you die; that's what a best friend is.
I have had one for almost 21 years now and that's my sister, no matter how many epileptic seizures (Almost dying in front of me) or how you dribbled on my barbie car whilst seizing (wasn't happy jan), Or knocks me "unconscious" from throwing a basketball at my face (I was faking so that you would get into trouble hahahaha!!!!)
Or even calling me a bitch when I flash lights in her face trying to make her have a seizure (before you judge me here, know that she hasn't had a seizure for ages when I tried to do this ahaha) or even when she almost drowned me in our bath tub playing 'Cinderalla'. Ugh, just don't even ask how that happened... Or the amount of times you told mum I was sneaking out to meet guys/girls at St. Joeys Primary School...
She will always be there to drag me naked out of the shower when there's a snake in the bath tub, (True story she's legit a hero).
Friends are family you choose for yourself and no matter how many friends I have in life I know I'll always have one I'd choose over any other friend in the world... And that's you, my sister, my beautiful tropical fish, my best friend... Joanna.
